Consequently it is dvaitaM.
It should not come anywhere near advaita-SAdhanA” – this might be the general understanding.
Yes, for a long time during the course of the SAdhanA it remains that way.
In other words, understanding love to be limited to just kindliness one is not supposed to bring it anywhere near actions.
But in due course of time, by the very fact that a refinement takes place by SAdhanA, one gets to know what true love is.